Shopping for your wife or girlfriend can be hard. She might not tell you what you wants but deep down she kinda hopes or sometimes even expects for you to know. She might drop little hints that she hopes you will catch on to, but we all know men and women are a bit, different.
You don’t want to be the gift card guy. Sure, you can get her a gift card but to be honest, you can’t just get her a gift card. You have to add something else to it.
If you aren’t sure what to get your wife or girlfriend for Christmas, her birthday or Valentines day this year, here are some great ideas from Amazon.com that you can’t go wrong with.
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Couples Games
She’ll love if you get her a couples game because it means you care enough about her to want to grow in your relationship and spend time with her. Many of the games go in depth and ask questions that help you get to know one another better and learn what each person enjoys. Would You Rather by J.R. James asks questions like, “Would you rather visit somewhere new with your lover on a weekend get away or have an intimate quiet weekend at home with just the two of you?” that can even help you plan future dates and get to know what she likes and get her to know what you like.
The Ultimate Game For Couples has two different ways you play, you can play one on one with just the two of you or you can play with other couples. It’s a mix of fun and light hearted questions along with some more in depth questions to get to know one another.
This is a creative gift that she’ll love and it’s perfect for a date night or to give you guys a reason to spend some more quality time together. It’s great if you’re just dating and getting to know each other or if you’ve been married for a while and just want to reconnect or deepen your bond.
Essential Oil Diffuser
Many women love for the house to smell good and they also love the healing properties of essential oils. If you aren’t familiar with them I’m sure you can ask her and she’ll tell you all about them lol. Lavender oil for example not only smells good but also has a calming property that can help with sleep or relaxation. Eucalyptus oil has healing properties that help you when you’re feeling sick.
When you are buying her a diffuser, you don’t want to go too cheap. You don’t have to spend a ton of money but also you want to get a nice one that will last. Also the biggest thing if you plan on getting her the essentials oils to go with it is that you make sure to get her 100% pure essential oils or therapeutic grade oils. Many oils can be diluted or not pure oil so they don’t give the healing properties and don’t smell as good. Plus some have chemicals and you don’t want to put chemicals into the air for her or you to breathe.
If you want to get her a set with both oils and a diffuser, this Himalayan Pink Salt Diffuser is a good option as it comes with 10 therapeutic grade essential oils. It has a really beautiful design that she’ll love.
If she already has a ton of oils at home she might like this Aromatherapy Essential Oil Diffuser that comes in multiple colors choices such as white or wood and the lights change colors.
Candles
If she loves for the house to smell good but isn’t into essential oils, another good option is a really nice candle. Don’t make this your whole gift, this is more of an addition to a gift. You can buy her a gift card and a nice candle, that could be a good gift, especially if you are newer in the relationship and don’t really know what she likes or if there is a gift card she really wants to a particular store. Some women really do want gift cards but it’s always nice to give a little gift along with it.
When buying candles there different quality as with any item. You want to look for a soy wax blend because it gives a cleaner burn and doesn’t pollute the air of your home. Some candles are full of chemicals and no one wants to fill their lungs with that.
Some of the best candles out there are from the Yankee Candle brand. They have an abundance of scents that smell amazing and they burn for a really long time. They also have an Elevated Collection so it looks a little nicer for a gift than the basic candles. If you’re not sure which scent she would like try this one called Sunlight Sands, especially if she loves the beach or has been wanting to go there.
Or you can’t go wrong with a Vanilla Crème Brulée, everyone loves vanilla and this particular one comes in various sizes so it can fit your budget.
Jewelry
Most women love jewelry. They of course love the wedding ring you got them, (or will get them maybe?), but there are so many other pieces you can give them to show your love for a special occasion.
Each woman is different so you may need to be a bit observant if you want to surprise her. You can always ask her what she likes but she’ll be really impressed if you can figure it out on your own.
Look for a few key things; does she wear necklaces, rings or bracelets? Does she wear gold or silver? What colors does she like for a gemstone? If you can figure out these three questions you are in good shape to get her something she likes and will actually wear. Jewelry can be tricky because many women will be grateful for the gift but if it’s not her style she might not wear it.
And don’t be cheap if you’re getting her jewelry, go for the real stuff not the fake stuff. It honestly isn’t always that expensive unless you get a specialty diamond or brand. You can get her a real gold or sterling sliver necklace for around $100 on sale. Of course you can always splurge and pay a few hundred or thousand dollars, but that’s up to you.
To be honest I recommend buying jewelry from a jewelry store, but if you don’t have the time or prefer to shop on Amazon you might like Diamond 3 Stone Pendant Necklace (1/4 cttw) if you are looking to spend around $100. It comes in both gold and silver. (If you’ve been paying attention you should be able to figure out which one she wears most often.)
If you really want to impress her and have the money to spend, get her a brand name like LE VIAN that specializes in chocolate diamonds or Effy. Here is a gorgeous Effy 14K Rose Gold Diamond Bangle
Hobby Gift
This gift will show that you really pay attention to her and care about the things she cares about. What is she passionate about? What does she enjoy doing?
If she is an artist for instance and loves to draw or paint, get her a really nice art set such as this Mega Wood Box Art Set. It comes with everything she needs to make a beautiful painting or drawing and even gives her the tools to try something new.
Is she a writer? Then she’ll love a fun gift like this
If art and writing aren’t her thing, then maybe she’s into photography, reading or cooking? Or does she like outdoor stuff such as hiking, riding motorcycle’s or gardening? The gift you get will definitely depend on what she likes and the more personalized you can make it the more she will love it. This is definitely a gift for couples who have been together for a while or share a hobby or passion together.
Tech Gift
Many people think of men when they think of a tech gift, but women love them too! From a new cell phone all the way up to a new TV, the options are endless!
To get her something she really loves, think about something she needs. Has she had her phone for a few years and complains about how short the battery life is? A new phone would be a great gift! Does she struggle with her old computer and how slow it runs? Maybe get her a new laptop. Or is she always getting the wires on her earbuds tangled? Get her some wireless earbuds!
If she doesn’t need anything then think about something she wants? Or is she a gamer? Maybe get her the newest console? Has she been talking about how cool it would be to have a smart TV? This Amazon Fire TV 43″ smart TV, is an awesome choice and comes complete with a built in firestick.
Accessories
Women love their accessories such as purses and shoes. It’s great to have different choices that can match with different outfits or seasons. If you know her well or if she’s told you exactly which purse or shoes she wants, great, get those. Don’t try to be fancy and get something different, just get the one she asked for. However, if you aren’t sure and are willing to take a risk, she might be pleasantly surprised at what you get her. However, it’s a good idea to get a gift receipt just in case.
Accessories are a much better option than trying to get her clothes. It’s too easy to get the wrong size or a style she won’t ever wear. Some women can even get offended by something you choose. For example, if you get her a size large in a shirt she might end up feeling like you think she’s fat. Or if you get her something really sexy like lingerie… bad idea unless it’s a mutual gift like for valentines day or an anniversary. Sexy lingerie is a gift for you, not her.
If you want to get her something nice but don’t know what she might like, try to pay attention to the things she already has and the styles and brands she likes. Many women do care about brands when it comes to their accessories. If she isn’t a brand person maybe there are certain colors she notices she always has. Does she always have black accessories or does she always have something bright like pink?
A few great options are this Calvin Klein Hailey Micro Pebble Top Zip Chain Tote. It comes in a variety of colors and designs. If you don’t know which color to get, stick with this black and sliver one. It’s a classic color and a great size.
Shoes are much harder to buy because you have to know her size and what style she likes (a little tip to figure out her shoe size is to check a current pair that she owns). A good safe bet would be to get her a pair of these Women’s Comfy House Slipper. They come in multiple colors and sizes but these are a good bet because they are comfy, cozy and easy to love. And if you aren’t sure which size, get them a little bigger since they are slippers.
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